I would ask, “What the hell do you believe?”
I’m sick of hearing “I’m not religious I’m spiritual”
I get it but you’re more lazy than anything.
What you believe shapes how you view the world in front of you so figure it out. Be it Atheist Muslim Buddhist Christian Or whatever you find. Do the hard work of doubting your doubts.
We all need meaning. We all need something to fight for. We all need something to believe in.